Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Posterior Cortical Atrophy {PCA}

As students are headed back to school, is there a subject would you like to learn at this stage of your life?  
My father-in-law has been diagnosed with PCA.  I never heard of this and it is something I would like to learn more about.

Posterior cortical atrophy (PCA), also known as Benson's syndrome, is a rare degenerative condition in which damage occurs at the back (posterior region) of the brain. In the vast majority of people, the cause of PCA is Alzheimer's disease.
At first we knew something was wrong, but had no idea what.  My mother-in-law researched and researched until she found a website about PCA.  A dr. appointment was made to a specialist in Philadelphia.  The diagnosis was heartbreaking, but at least we could move forward and help Stan as much as we can. My mother-in-law is relentless in keeping Stan's mind active. The love she shows her husband is amazing and outstanding.
The first symptoms of PCA tend to occur when people are in their mid-50s or early 60s. However, the first signs are often subtle and it may be some time before a formal diagnosis is made.
Looking back there are many signs that we missed.  Simple things like running into furniture or knocking things over. Tripping. Not wearing matching socks.  These things were intermittent and not noticed by us.
Initially, people with PCA tend to have a relatively well-preserved memory but experience problems with their vision, such as difficulty recognising faces and objects in pictures. They may also have problems with literacy and numeracy. These tasks are controlled by the back part of the brain, where the initial damage in PCA occurs.  
When Stan's vision began deteriorate he went to an eye doctor.  The doctor told him there was nothing wrong with his eyes.  It was baffling because there was something wrong with his vision.  After learning about PCA, the vision problems made more sense.  His vision has gotten to the point where he cannot read or drive anymore, focusing on objects is difficult and even talking walks is a struggle.  It is becoming difficult for him to navigate from one room to the next.
As damage in the brain spreads and the disease progresses, people develop the more typical symptoms of Alzheimer's disease, such as memory loss and confusion. There are no specific medications for the treatment of PCA but some people find medications for Alzheimer's disease helpful.  
Stan has more good days than bad.  The good days is like having our father, the man we know and love.  He can remember things back to his childhood and can tell stories about the things his sons and grandchildren have done growing up.  The bad days are sad.  He can become so confused.  It's too hard for me to go into details and talk about.  I can only pray that he can be at peace during this struggle and pray for his family and friends to remain strong.

Click HERE to learn more about PCA.


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Wednesday, September 16, 2015

This summer I went to OCNJ


Actually my family and I go to Ocean City, NJ every summer.
It's a tradition I look forward to every year!
Some of my favorite things about Ocean City is Johnson's caramel popcorn.
 If you buy a bucket you can get a refill for a discounted price.  Todd's mom brings a bucket back every year and we get it filled a few times during our vacation.
 Ocean Cafe is a place Todd and I like to get lunch from.  
They have the best sandwiches and the staff is always awesome!
 On the beach you can always find something interesting.
 Another place that is popular with the crowd is Salt Water Taffy. 
I personally do not like it.  The store also sells homemade candy and fudge.  
Now THAT I LOVE!
Miniature golf has been a tradition that the boys enjoy.  
Every year  they go with the intentions of winning however
it is typical their Uncle Chad wins, which makes my boys very frustrated!

 The weather was great. A bit hot. It wouldn't be the beach if it wasn't hot! =D

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I hope you all had a great summer!
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Thursday, September 10, 2015

Conversations with Brandon {The Roommate}

One thing freshman college students become anxious over is meeting their roommate.  Who wouldn't be?!  You have to share a small room with a stranger for an entire school year! As a parent, you hope for the best.  Luckily Brandon likes his roommate even though they don't have a lot in common.  His roommate is on the quite side (anyone who knows Brandon knows he is definitely not quiet!), he is shy and doesn't leave the dorm room much (Brandon is a social butterfly) and he plays a lot of video games (Brandon plays some, but would rather be doing something active).  

Some of the text messages I have been getting from Brandon I find amusing.
I'll share a few:

The day we moved Brandon in he was wearing a shirt from a hockey tournament he played in. The tournament was called "The Flyers Cup".  (btw: Brandon is a NJ Devils fan).
Hahahahaha my roommates mom thought I was a flyers fan so I went along with it and she was like thank god your not some devils fan!  I almost lost it!!

Day two: Saturday night.  
Brandon is headed out to Rita's Water Ice with a few new friends he made.  I asked him if his roommate was going.
No, He is reading his accounting book lol....

Monday: first day of classes
I'm going to be huge because I'm just going to lift twice a day!! I can't stay cooped up in this damn room ! 
My roomate is eating his moms homemade cookies and playing Call of Duty 
It's all he does. Yeah, he needs to put some damn headphones in I'm not listening to Call of Duty all night.

A week later....
I teasingly asked Brandon if he has corrupted his roommate yet:

It's college mom! The poor kid needs these basic skills!!!

What would his mama think? 

His mom sent him a card with 10 dollars in it 

Does he get embarrassed?

No, I laugh with him about it. 

Still playing video games?

Oh yeah. 

A few days later:
Dude got his own tv so we can take mine one home. I don't need it, its just sitting here. 

What was wrong with your TV?

Nothing he just wanted a bigger one, I suppose 

To play his video games on? 

All the kid does is play damn Xbox!!!

Roommate sharing any cookies with you?

I declined.

A week ago:
Bought ear plugs lol
But I can put them in my ears and broke 3 of them trying lol. 


Two days ago:
Oh no Dude's Call of Duty broke!!

That's a Major dilemma 

He was like now I have nothing to do, all I have is golf. He was about to cry I think 

He has a huge box of games????

Lol but they're not Call of Duty!! 

Today:
I can't focus with this animal watching tv and shoving his face with food. 
I have to go to the library.

Note: Brandon has a unique sense of humor. By no means are his texts message written out of anger or meant to be negative.  Some times it's difficult to understand the way a person is expressing oneself via text and can be misinterpreted. 
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Sunday, August 16, 2015

Friends

Did you ever laugh and laugh and laugh so hard you 
belly hurt and tears were running down your face?
That's what happens when we get together with our friends!
 This part of our lives is easier to get together with other adult couples.

One perk of having an empty nest is that you can go out whenever you want!  
No more babysitters!
But talking about our kids anecdotes are sure to keep us entertained.
Our group of friends just seem to click.
 It never fails that we have fun no matter what situation we find ourselves it.
It's great to have friends!!
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Friday, August 7, 2015

Rain Forest Cafe

 I've never heard of the Rainforest Cafe.  
It sounded like a cool place to go to eat with the kids.  
We went to a location in Atlantic City, NJ,
The Rainforest Cafe restaurant is designed to depict some features of a tropical rainforest, including plant growth; mist; waterfalls; and figures of rainforest animals, including elephants, frogs, gorillas, jaguars, tigers, and tropical birds. Cool part of the theme is that some of the figures are animatronic.



 We celebrated Max's 11th birthday with a volcano cake!
  Most of the family was here.  
Two of my boys (Ahren and Zachary) couldn't come on vacation this year.
I love this photo of Brandon with his grandparents!

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Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Class of 2015 {Daniel Boone HS}


My baby graduated high school.   I know this is a cliché, but where did the time go?  
Seriously!  I can still remember his little infant hand grabbing my pinkie.  
Now it's time for me to let go.

It's also time for him to move on and prepare for a new chapter in his life.
Brandon was very social, a good athlete and strived to achieve good grades.  
These things were important to him.
He learned to have a balance between his friends, sports and the academic goals he wanted to meet.
I feel lot of parents and schools have come to focus on awards, grades and test scores. Our society focuses on monetary and material success. But will these things define our kids in the end?
One of the many qualities I love about Brandon is his attitude towards life. Attitude means everything.  I've heard parents say this to their children over and over again (we are one of them).  Everyone says this because it really does!  The kind of attitude your child carries will be reflected in the course they take in life, and in whom they will attract, both personally and professionally.
Brandon and his grandparents
Another quality I adore about Brandon is his sense of humor. The world can easily see it! There is no question that many of his teachers would have preferred to see less of it, but he has always managed to balance the “class clown” act carefully enough to not cross the invisible line into serious annoyance.
Through out high school Brandon has been surrounded by a good group of friends.  They were trustworthy and loyal to one another.  It seems like they were always finding something fun and exciting to do.  Brandon was typically the center of attention and he has a strong level of confidence.  He was not afraid to laugh at himself.  
Congratulations to Brandon and to the Class of 2015 on all the tremendous accomplishments. 
You should be extremely proud of yourselves for your hard work and dedication over these past four years.

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Sunday, July 5, 2015

Graduation Party {Brandon}

 My friend has her own cake business. 
She made a graduation cake and cupcake tower and O.M.G. they were delicious!!
 I made a board covered with photos of Brandon over the years.
  I was happy that Mommom R was able to join the party. 
(My grandmother and Brandon's great grandmother)
I attached photos of Brandon from infancy until his senior year of high school.   
They hung in our living room for our guests to see.  
Towards the end of the party, some of the balloons sank to the floor. 
This picture reminds me of the Disney movie "Up".

The jousting bounce was well worth every penny to rent!
 As you can tell, the boys had a lot of fun smacking each other around!
  It was a hot day but it didn't rain like it was predicted.  
We had 75 guests who all said the food was awesome! (I was smart and had it catered).  
A huge thank you to all our family and friends who were able to join us to celebrate Brandon's graduation!
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